Post by starprincess on Dec 20, 2009 17:33:58 GMT -5
I would like to talk about my opinions of a true friend. A friend in my opinion is someone that is willing to do almost everything for you. A person that will pick you up when your down and give you the strength to get back up, A friend will grab your neck and force you to your feet if you even think about giving up. A friend is someone that will do everything they can to assist you when able. That is a true friend to me. The bonds of friendship is a two way relationship. Each one looks after the other while tending to their own lives. These friends may have their differences but they never let that come between them. However in my opinion adaptation plays a part in this.. Lets say one friend was gentle and kind while the other was rough and aggressive. Opposites I know but shouldn't they find middle ground between one another? Opposites must give up a little bit of themselves to make the other person comfortable but shouldn't they also be adaptable? I mean... shouldn't there be time when they should leave each other's comfort zone to build friendship? Thats the way I feel..A friend should be able to leave their comfort zone or the friendship isn't really strong.. It's like "I'll help you only if I'm comfortable with it." That doesn't seem right to me... It makes me feel like I can't count on them unless its within their nature. If I was being cornered by a group of thugs would you try to help me or would you run away and leave me. Friends stick together no matter what, even if its out of their comfort zone. That's what I believe and that's how I am. I will never abandon them, no matter how hard or different the task is but I want them to do the same. Some people may consider my belief to be silly and selfish but I've made some good friends this way.
I'll admit that I'm a little "shaky" when it comes to my opposite. People that are nice, sweet and cheery piss me off because it shows a lot of weakness. I like seeing strong people that can stand up on their own two feet. People that are unable to stand on their own feet, can't do things on their own and/or lean on others all the time are very annoying to me. In my eyes they're burdens, weighing down on people because they refuse to gain some strength or too afraid too. However I'm not totally against these types of people.. I don't mind them clinging to their weakness if thats what they prefer but If I was in a situation were helping me would require you to put your timid self aside, could you do it? People like that....... they disappoint me.... Real friends stick together right? So why can't you put something aside to help me when I would drop anything to be by your side? I don't understand..... That's not a strong friendship to me.... its weak and easily broken..... ~sigh~
Thats all I wanted to say for now... I'm just getting some emotions out. Don't mind me...
I'll admit that I'm a little "shaky" when it comes to my opposite. People that are nice, sweet and cheery piss me off because it shows a lot of weakness. I like seeing strong people that can stand up on their own two feet. People that are unable to stand on their own feet, can't do things on their own and/or lean on others all the time are very annoying to me. In my eyes they're burdens, weighing down on people because they refuse to gain some strength or too afraid too. However I'm not totally against these types of people.. I don't mind them clinging to their weakness if thats what they prefer but If I was in a situation were helping me would require you to put your timid self aside, could you do it? People like that....... they disappoint me.... Real friends stick together right? So why can't you put something aside to help me when I would drop anything to be by your side? I don't understand..... That's not a strong friendship to me.... its weak and easily broken..... ~sigh~
Thats all I wanted to say for now... I'm just getting some emotions out. Don't mind me...
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