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Post by peram on Mar 31, 2008 16:16:42 GMT -5
I don't understand what I'm apologizing for
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Post by Dobs on Mar 31, 2008 16:24:09 GMT -5
i was gonna say, peram didnt do anything wrong so i dont see why he should apologize. He can tell her that he understands that she feels akward or something, but he shouldnt apologize.
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Post by peram on Mar 31, 2008 16:25:44 GMT -5
"Oh, I'm sorry I like you. I'm a complete idiot for that"
Do you know how that sounds?
yeah, I'm not apologizin
and why say we haven't talked for a while when I talked to her very little yesterday?
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Post by smashbro on Mar 31, 2008 16:27:35 GMT -5
First I want to say geo's last advice seemed really good. just say you want to get back to being friends and hopefully she will. Don't worry about what you're apologizing for, you don't have to know. But it is usually the best thing you could do. I can only talk to 1, maybe 2 or 3 of my friends about this stuff. The rest won't care, or they'll turn it into a joke. Neither of those friends are guys. In fact, almost any guy that is a friend of mine, I hate. I just realized that. And start hanging out with those friends more, even if they aren't guys. They seem to be your best friends at school. The worst thing that could happen would be that people joke saying youre a player because you hang out with girls a lot but dont have a girlfriend or have had one. but youve had girlfriends so that wont happen. I know more guys then girls who are dumb a**es so that makes sense, for the thing about your guy friends. |
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Post by peram on Mar 31, 2008 16:39:26 GMT -5
why am I apologizing?
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Post by Naked Snake II on Mar 31, 2008 16:39:33 GMT -5
You didn't do anything to her. Just idk maybe saying sorry would make it sounds more like you really want to be friends with her still. Idk if she's that type that loves making it seem she never does anything wrong. If ya want dont say sorry.
And when you talked to her, was it like a conversation? or just like a hi kinds thing?
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Post by smashbro on Mar 31, 2008 17:12:28 GMT -5
Its just the right thing to say when a girl is mad at you or things are awkward like your situation |
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Post by strawberry on Mar 31, 2008 18:38:52 GMT -5
Yes. And it has a high success rate ^^;;
Not really "I'm sorry I like you"
More of a "I'm really sorry if I have caused any awkwardness between us"
Some of Geo's speech: {which was really good btw}
I can tell you feel awkward talking to me now and all, but for the record- I messed up and I completely understand. I had no right to put you in that situation (name of person). Can I just say now that I was an idiot and I'm really sorry as a friend and a person.
The first sentence might make the girl feel threatened by the simple word "you" in "I can tell you feel awkward..." She might get a bit defensive-
I learned in Health class that "I" statements work best =.=;; and to not use "you"
Do NOT say "I completely understand", unless you seriously completely really do. It pisses us off beyond belief if some guy says "I understand why ____ so please forgive me." It makes us want to scream "NO YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND YOU ---!"
As for the last sentence, be sure to say it assertively...if you plan on apologizing.
Kudos again to Geo.
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Post by peram on Apr 4, 2008 15:25:47 GMT -5
well, I talked to her
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Post by Naked Snake II on Apr 4, 2008 18:32:50 GMT -5
and what did she say?
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Post by peram on Apr 4, 2008 19:13:26 GMT -5
it went horribly Geo.
I was right about what would happen in the end
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Post by Naked Snake II on Apr 4, 2008 20:03:46 GMT -5
ooo.... I'm sorry to hear that
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Post by peram on Apr 4, 2008 21:25:11 GMT -5
So am I.
I knew it would happen. I knew it would.
Oh, and even worse.
my friend never showed up to the movies.
I waited for like 10 minutes. She wasn't there.
And when I got on AIM to talk to her, my internet went down.
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