How To Get a Girl For Friend

[Dwayne Wadepoop321]

Well theres a guy in my school that likes this girl in another class. He doesn't have a Girl Friend, and he wants to get the girl to go out with him. He aksed another girl in my class to ask the girl(she was in trouble or something), and the girl said he was Ugly. He asked the girl to ask the girl he likes to give him a second chance. So what could he do to try to get her to like him or just get her to go out with him.

[Aphelion]

Here's a few words of advice, though I no love guru I do know girls...
First of all, you're in 5th grade right and so is your friend??
Girls about that age start to obsess about self image, truely, many a clicke was formed in 5th grade in my school. Also, all lot of the times girls, may not truely be ready at that age to have a boyfriend (or their mothers do not permit it). Thats just some backround information btw...

I see two main problems

1st problem....
Never ask another girl to relay the message, because A). a girl (even a best friend) may be sore over some matter with the girl that the message is ment for. Which means, possible information may be added that is unwanted... B). The message may not be relayed in the manner that your friend may wanted it to be relayed. Some girls, actually judge a boy on their manner of speech. For example, i myself abhor leet, and will tend to be offput by a boy speaking leet. C). Its considered a bit cowardly, or in my case, might be taken as a joke. Trust me,a girl is caught off guard and has no idea how to respond to, its really embarssing (because she hasn't have time to figure out how she's feeling)

Solution - Do not try to drop hints that never, ever works.... Most girls, might mistaken it for jokes. To approach a girl, first become her friend, so that she may become comfortable to be around you. To become a friend just talk to her, maybe before class, invite her to play a sport, just try to find common ground. If you think that she is approachable, then go up and confess. When a boy first confessed to me I thought it was brave as well as flattering. Currently we are just friends.

2nd problem - apperance
this is probably the hardest to tackle of the two. Girls tend to date guys that are close to their clicks and, thus their apperance. For example, Jocks go out with jocks, and gamers go out with gamers. Apperance is the first common ground. Check what click shes in and then dress appropraitely. The issue at that point is that your age group is the beginning of the look judgemental trend which will last, actuatly it lasts your whole life... so scratch that.

Solution - First of all, its kinda hard to figure out what she meant by "ugly", but here are some tips... Acne, as you know may start in 5th grade, i've seen it, and is a major off puter. if this is the case, wash face at least twice a day, more so after sweating.. Another issue, seems to be hair. What I mean by this is that, hair that seems unaturally dull, or somewhat dirty is another off puter, wash hair about everyday to two days, depending on oil production.

A few things I have to mention to your friend is that A) this is a general, broad view on female behavoir and thus may not help. B). Just keep trying and become her friend. C). Good Luck

[The Link]

This is coming from someone with experience. If she can't see past looks and accept him personally, then she isn't worth the time. She needs to get her head out of her @$$ and look in a mirror. lol BUt that's just me.

Your friend needs to develop a friendship with this girl first. Otherwise, it's going to be near impossible to get her to go out with him: and not agreeing that your friend is ugly.

I just know how girls work. ~_^

[Naked Snake II]

well if she likes good-looking guys and he doesnt cut the try-outs, then there's a few things to do.
1) Hang out with the girl more to realize theres more to a realationship than looks
2) She isn't worth a second if she really likes good-looking guys and should probably try someone new

[Dwayne Wadepoop321]

Ok, Thanks guys i'll tell him to try to do that but the problem is that she's in another class and i don't think theres any way they could get together, except maybe like once a week or at some certain Recess we have. And maybe after a week or a while i'll see what happens

[Naked Snake II]

recess? is this an elementary case?

[Dwayne Wadepoop321]

Yep, i'm in 5th and thats the only time both of our classes meet each other so thats the only time they can talk

[Naked Snake II]

oh. well that makes scence now. alrighty yaa go with some of these advises and your friend should know what to really do

[Dwayne Wadepoop321]

I told him, i would get him some help, And I WON'T FORGET

[Naked Snake II]

your a pretty good friend to him I take it.

[Dwayne Wadepoop321]

Yeah but i haven't known him that long only since Jan. 29, but were good friends most of the other kids in our class hate him for no reason

[Naked Snake II]

I see, I use to have a friend like that as well. I know how the whole situation feels