IOwnedYou
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Post by IOwnedYou on Oct 19, 2009 19:39:34 GMT -5
Well, I'm having issues with asking out this girl I like.
Great personality.
Great looks.
She no longer has a boyfriend, and they just broke up so I know not to ask her out immediately, especially if they were going out for a month and two weeks. I talk to her when I get a chance, she smiles everytime I walk up to her and just say "Hey, what's up?"
I'm a shy person, she's usually surrounded by a big group of people I don't really know, so I dislike busting in there or standing behind them all like a stalker. Yeah, so, I basically just don't have the guts to ask her out. I can talk to her, I can flirt with her, but just saying "Hey, wanna go out?" Is extremely hard to do for some reason. Whenever I flirt with her, I almost give away that I like her by saying things like... "You're gorgeous" I've hinted several times that I like her. I think she knows, but I'm not quite sure.
Any advice All-Powerful-Guru
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Rorschach
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Post by Rorschach on Oct 19, 2009 21:50:37 GMT -5
we will talk about this soon but for now, only except advice from Geo.
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Post by serraskai on Oct 19, 2009 23:23:05 GMT -5
I wish I was in love.  |
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Post by Angel on Oct 19, 2009 23:49:49 GMT -5
*is annoyed since she still is the Love Guru, she never lost that title and here Sour is telling to ignore my advice.. BUUU... *
There is nothing wrong with being shy. But I want to actually be the first one to say.. I think you really need to think about how you want to do this. I'm not going to be stupid and say, "Be a man, own up and do it," blah.. blah.. blah.. I'm going to say this instead.
What your worried about when you can't tell a girl or boy what your feeling is the chance of a lost chance. Afraid that you'll feel embarrassed when they say no, or that you'll have lost your chance if they say no. But the bottom line is that if you never actually ask her, it will never happen. And right now your young, but your both growing up and (sadly for me) this world is one where people start dating early. I think that if you two are friends, you flirt, you tell her that she's gorgeous and you haven't actually made a move or anything but she's still not pushing it away.. then you should just jump in and try this. Just say it, even if it's painful. That way.. you'll know and you can stop being haunted by if she says no.. and you can focus our attention on someone you actually have a chance with, or if she says yes.. can start learning about each other on a deeper level and start fostering a loving relationship. It's a win win situation IOY.
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Post by lloydexphere on Oct 20, 2009 9:40:17 GMT -5
She no longer has a boyfriend, and they just broke up .... she's usually surrounded by a big group of people I don't really know If she just broke up and is hanging around big groups of people.. it probably means she wants to take a break to having a true love. Which is a good thing! Why? All these "friends" treat her the same by just saying hi and stuff. You have to go different.. by that I mean.. 1. Do not over use your hugging to her 2. Tell her you respect girls and will not kiss one until they allow it. 3. slowly show that you like her.. chances are.. if she really is good looking, other boys would try being all over. Do not go in too fast. 4. When holidays come around, do something sweet for her. ^^ I hope I helped in some way.. Caroline reminds me to help others about these love issues.. |
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kunekune
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Post by kunekune on Oct 20, 2009 15:07:09 GMT -5
Trust me, most girls I know are too shy to tell some guys that they like them, so in essence you could both be in the same boat.
And the actual question, "Wanna go out?" seems kinda lame to me and I don't know if I know anyone who simply asked that question. It might be best if you eased your way into it, like ask her if she wants to see a movie, or if she wants to go out for a coffee (depends if she drinks coffee, but idk wtf you kids start drinking at your age @_@). Just find out something she'd like to do and ask her if she would like to do it with you as well. Then, when you both are having a fun time and she's really enjoying herself you can maybe tell her how much you've admired her and that you've always been very fond of the way she is.
Just don't ask directly "Will you go out with me," because to me that sounds a bit lame :/
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Rorschach
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Post by Rorschach on Oct 20, 2009 20:18:52 GMT -5
we are talking about this now IOY: Let the master teach you  |
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Post by |TheHappyFox| on Oct 24, 2009 5:45:48 GMT -5
Were, Were is the master? I can find him/her
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