Post by smashbro on Sept 11, 2008 15:35:54 GMT -5
This may fit under social life too, but i put it here since i just did.
I have lots of problems and need to talk to somebody bout them, and you're the people who i trust (whatever you look like, whatever your names are).
1) My brother. At home, he's a jacka** to me and tells me what to do (i don't do it unless i want to, but he still orders me around). At school, he's shy, and has no friends since he just came into highschool, and most of his friends went to other schools. I feel like wherever I have to go I have to babysit him because he is not very confident, and according to my mom looks up to me a lot.
But on the other hand he does not want to make friends at scool, or doesn't act like it. When we went to the library, and saw 2 of my friends, i sat down, and he stood off to the side. Both me and one of the friends told him to pull up a chair and sit, but he said no. He didn't talk at all to them, or even try to listen to the conversation. He was just like extra baggage that follows me around everywhere.
So some of you probably know I'm part of the robotics team at my school. And since my brother doesn't want to anything that I'm not doing, joined only because I'm in it. So the team split up into 4 groups to compete against each other, and my brother wanted to be on the same team as me. They split up senior members (me) and we were told to pick the others, but it was more like the others walk up to us and ask to be on our team. My brother did not go to me to ask to be on my team; I didn't go over to get him either. So we're on different teams.
On the way home and for the rest of the night (yesterday) he is mad at me, and my parerents tell me I should have gotten him on my team. And while it probably would have been a good thing to do, I kinda wanted him to not be on my team, so I don't have to constantly watch him. Another example is today, when we were going into school. My dad has told us repeatedly to be ready to go on time, since he has to go into work. I was ready 10 minutes early, my brother was 10 minutes late. So we get to school late, and since he refuses to leave any of his books at school in his locker, he takes a long time to unpack everything. I feel I have to wait with him and go with him to any teacher who he needs to talk to (did i mention he's obsessed with grade?). The bell rings, and I miss talking to my friends because of him. I always feel like I have to babysit him and can't live my own life.
Any adivce?
2)My parents. I can't talk to them. I honestly should be telling them something like this, but I feel I have never been close to them to talk about stuff. This is also true with my brother. I don't feel like I could talk to anyone in my family, even my brother, about girls, or what does on in school or anything. And back to my parents only, I feel they put my brother first, because he is like the way he is at school.
3) The girl I like. On a happier note things are going good. We both like each other I think, and everyone seems to know it. Even my dad thinks she likes me, but i just ignore him or say whatever since i can't feel i can talk to him (if you dont know why stop skimming i know its long but bear with me). Also, a person I know on robotics, sort of a friend, came up to me yesterday and said him, Ben, and Casey are all supporting me. I assumed about the girl, because Casey and Ben go to a different school, and I haven't talked to them in months, except casey on Facebook. Then I mentioned who I liked and told him a little about the girl I like (Shannon).
Did I just get permission to like her or what?
4) Short attention span. As you might know I spend some <cough> time online. But i tihnk it's geting to be too much time, but homework gets so boring...
Any way to help me not go on when I should be doing homework without destroying my computer (btw i better go now I have a test in Pre-Calc tomorrow)
anyway, thanks for the help if you can give it to me, if not thanks for reading.
I have lots of problems and need to talk to somebody bout them, and you're the people who i trust (whatever you look like, whatever your names are).
1) My brother. At home, he's a jacka** to me and tells me what to do (i don't do it unless i want to, but he still orders me around). At school, he's shy, and has no friends since he just came into highschool, and most of his friends went to other schools. I feel like wherever I have to go I have to babysit him because he is not very confident, and according to my mom looks up to me a lot.
But on the other hand he does not want to make friends at scool, or doesn't act like it. When we went to the library, and saw 2 of my friends, i sat down, and he stood off to the side. Both me and one of the friends told him to pull up a chair and sit, but he said no. He didn't talk at all to them, or even try to listen to the conversation. He was just like extra baggage that follows me around everywhere.
So some of you probably know I'm part of the robotics team at my school. And since my brother doesn't want to anything that I'm not doing, joined only because I'm in it. So the team split up into 4 groups to compete against each other, and my brother wanted to be on the same team as me. They split up senior members (me) and we were told to pick the others, but it was more like the others walk up to us and ask to be on our team. My brother did not go to me to ask to be on my team; I didn't go over to get him either. So we're on different teams.
On the way home and for the rest of the night (yesterday) he is mad at me, and my parerents tell me I should have gotten him on my team. And while it probably would have been a good thing to do, I kinda wanted him to not be on my team, so I don't have to constantly watch him. Another example is today, when we were going into school. My dad has told us repeatedly to be ready to go on time, since he has to go into work. I was ready 10 minutes early, my brother was 10 minutes late. So we get to school late, and since he refuses to leave any of his books at school in his locker, he takes a long time to unpack everything. I feel I have to wait with him and go with him to any teacher who he needs to talk to (did i mention he's obsessed with grade?). The bell rings, and I miss talking to my friends because of him. I always feel like I have to babysit him and can't live my own life.
Any adivce?
2)My parents. I can't talk to them. I honestly should be telling them something like this, but I feel I have never been close to them to talk about stuff. This is also true with my brother. I don't feel like I could talk to anyone in my family, even my brother, about girls, or what does on in school or anything. And back to my parents only, I feel they put my brother first, because he is like the way he is at school.
3) The girl I like. On a happier note things are going good. We both like each other I think, and everyone seems to know it. Even my dad thinks she likes me, but i just ignore him or say whatever since i can't feel i can talk to him (if you dont know why stop skimming i know its long but bear with me). Also, a person I know on robotics, sort of a friend, came up to me yesterday and said him, Ben, and Casey are all supporting me. I assumed about the girl, because Casey and Ben go to a different school, and I haven't talked to them in months, except casey on Facebook. Then I mentioned who I liked and told him a little about the girl I like (Shannon).
Did I just get permission to like her or what?
4) Short attention span. As you might know I spend some <cough> time online. But i tihnk it's geting to be too much time, but homework gets so boring...
Any way to help me not go on when I should be doing homework without destroying my computer (btw i better go now I have a test in Pre-Calc tomorrow)
anyway, thanks for the help if you can give it to me, if not thanks for reading.
smashbro ~~~ Authority: 20 ~~~ Combat: 10
MAKE A FRIGGIN MOVE! NAO!
