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Post by Sharpay on Feb 17, 2009 2:18:54 GMT -5
This follows my "Lost" thread about my ex-bf cheating and breaking up with me. This is all online (MSN messenger) and his new "gf" is also on the messenger along with my 2 new friends who are his "friends." His "gf" is so mean to all of us and my ex-bf does nothing about it, just lets it slide. My ex-bf only comes online for her, because throughout the weekend when him and I were together, he was always online even though I was busy most of the day, since his "gf" has a life, he does not come on unless she is on. Just recently I have blocked both of them. He can contact me by my other e-mail account and he has my phone number. He is not even attempting or having sympathy of all this. It has gotten so bad that if she was able to murder someone, that he would be on her side. I just don't know what to do.
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Post by peram on Feb 17, 2009 7:52:02 GMT -5
Throw snowglobes at them  |
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Post by Sharpay on Feb 17, 2009 10:22:16 GMT -5
Lol! Wish I could do that.
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Post by Naked Snake II on Feb 17, 2009 20:14:56 GMT -5
r u still trying to move on?
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Post by Sharpay on Feb 17, 2009 21:47:58 GMT -5
Yes I am trying to move on.
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Post by lloydexphere on Feb 18, 2009 21:01:35 GMT -5
Throw snowglobes at them You should do that but really, I dont know... sorry. |
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Post by Sharpay on Feb 18, 2009 21:22:28 GMT -5
It is no problem Lloyd. It is very complicated and I would hate to think of things I would do to the new "couple" if we were all in person. Even his "friends" have the same thoughts as I have, so I am not "one-sided."  |
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Post by Angel on Feb 19, 2009 1:01:03 GMT -5
Otay, I'm not a guru.. but I have to speak up about this.
I was in a similar situation as you.. well, other than I ended up running away before his new interest could be mean to me. Sadly, no matter how hard you try with some past interests.. things end up being too hard to let go. He may be lashing out of out what he feels is "pain". The best thing would be to do is just walk away and completely ignore them. Say your peace, tell him how you feel and walk away.
Change your e-mail if you must, do all you can. Block him. I feel for you, because my ex was at least mature enough to realize we both needed a clean break. If you ever need to talk, PM me otay?
You have to focus on you and your happiness.. I worry about you clinging to the hope of a friendship that.. like me.. I wished would last forever. I told him I would always love him.. my Skye. And I do. He taught me what love was... he was the first to give me butterflies in my tummy. I cried and cried because I really wished we could have stayed friends.
To this day I still love him. But I know now he is happier without me in his life. He told me things, before I left.. I know he didn't mean. He was lashing out of pain.. out of his want to not care or love me anymore and move on.
So you need to move on too, okay? Again, please feel free to message me if you want to talk.
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Post by peram on Feb 19, 2009 8:03:21 GMT -5
If you don't have snowglobes, lemonade, (lemon grenade  ) will suffice too. |
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Post by lloydexphere on Feb 19, 2009 9:11:42 GMT -5
Otay, I'm not a guru.. but I have to speak up about this. I was in a similar situation as you.. well, other than I ended up running away before his new interest could be mean to me. Sadly, no matter how hard you try with some past interests.. things end up being too hard to let go. He may be lashing out of out what he feels is "pain". The best thing would be to do is just walk away and completely ignore them. Say your peace, tell him how you feel and walk away. Change your e-mail if you must, do all you can. Block him. I feel for you, because my ex was at least mature enough to realize we both needed a clean break. If you ever need to talk, PM me otay? You have to focus on you and your happiness.. I worry about you clinging to the hope of a friendship that.. like me.. I wished would last forever. I told him I would always love him.. my Skye. And I do. He taught me what love was... he was the first to give me butterflies in my tummy. I cried and cried because I really wished we could have stayed friends. To this day I still love him. But I know now he is happier without me in his life. He told me things, before I left.. I know he didn't mean. He was lashing out of pain.. out of his want to not care or love me anymore and move on. So you need to move on too, okay? Again, please feel free to message me if you want to talk. that's... sad, I know how that feels... |
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