Lost

[Sharpay]

I have been getting some help on this, but I still need some help. My almost 2 year bf broke up with me for someone he has not met. Someone in another country. Couple days ago he told me that he does not love me anymore. I found out that he has been cheating on me and just this morning I confronted him with his cheating and new gf. He treated me like I was the biggest jerk in the world. We are no longer in contact. I have been shaking really hard and I have been trying to erase these memories and move on.

[starprincess]

Girlfriends are so much better but thats my own opinion. That guy sounds like a real jerk for leaving you like that. I know it's hard to erase the memories of the relationship and I feel your pain. but I know you will find someone better. A person that will love and cherish you.

[Sharpay]

Jan 25, 2009 16:03:59 GMT -5 @starprincess said:

Girlfriends are so much better but thats my own opinion. That guy sounds like a real jerk for leaving you like that. I know it's hard to erase the memories of the relationship and I feel your pain. but I know you will find someone better. A person that will love and cherish you.

Thanks. It is just he still wanted to be friends, but he lied to me and backstabbed me, and friends don't do that.

[Angel]

You have the answer right there. Friends don't do that.

I have a boyfriend that I was ready to commit to once. I was really really ready, almost to the point where I was about to ask him if he wanted to move in together, then he suprises me by telling me he wants to move to, get this, Russia.

Well, needless to say he went without me. I was ready, willing to do the LD relationship until I felt like we were close enough to do something bigger with each other, be he completely FORGOT about me. Never sent me e-mails or anything.

When he came back, he got angry at ME for moving on. I told him.. if you loved me, you wouldn't have done that. You wouldn't have left me crying every night missing you. It's not too hard to, in 4-5 months, get on for 10 seconds to send me a small e-mail...

Sadly, I didn't want to remain friends, and well.. we did for a time, but then things got complicated.

But seriously.. know that if it would have worked out, it would have. Nothing you could do. It might be painful.. but you shouldn't have to settle.

[Sharpay]

Jan 25, 2009 16:14:56 GMT -5 Angel said:

You have the answer right there. Friends don't do that.

I have a boyfriend that I was ready to commit to once. I was really really ready, almost to the point where I was about to ask him if he wanted to move in together, then he suprises me by telling me he wants to move to, get this, Russia.

Well, needless to say he went without me. I was ready, willing to do the LD relationship until I felt like we were close enough to do something bigger with each other, be he completely FORGOT about me. Never sent me e-mails or anything.

When he came back, he got angry at ME for moving on. I told him.. if you loved me, you wouldn't have done that. You wouldn't have left me crying every night missing you. It's not too hard to, in 4-5 months, get on for 10 seconds to send me a small e-mail...

Sadly, I didn't want to remain friends, and well.. we did for a time, but then things got complicated.

But seriously.. know that if it would have worked out, it would have. Nothing you could do. It might be painful.. but you shouldn't have to settle.

I hope things are better for you now. Sorry to hear that happened to you. I am better than I was this morning.

[Bayonetta]

Jan 25, 2009 16:03:59 GMT -5 @starprincess said:

Girlfriends are so much better but thats my own opinion. That guy sounds like a real jerk for leaving you like that. I know it's hard to erase the memories of the relationship and I feel your pain. but I know you will find someone better. A person that will love and cherish you.

*Huggles Star* Yes! She speaks the truth. Girlfriends may be better. But the whole boyfriend situation. He's not worth it, you never know the girl is probably trashy. Don't let some girl get to you. That's what I call envy. Don't let him get to ya. There are other fish in the sea, as my mother tells meh all teh timeth. But yeah, NO BOY is irreplacable. Remember, YOU'RE irreplacable.

[Sharpay]

Thanks. I don't know what my ex-bf is going to do. We lost contact, but before I told him that I would check up on him in a couple of months. I am not as depressed, but he was my first bf, so I was not sure if I was just going crazy.

[¡Yiff Police!]

Well I never had a gf but I can tell you this..Obviously your old bf was an a-hole and I think he will get what he deserves..Karma knows no boundaries. Your a sweet a girl who doesn't such treatment..I do hope better though for your next relationship.

[Sharpay]

Thanks. Actually I am just curious how he is going to meet her or how long it is going to last. Because if he wants to meet her in person, he never earns his money, only cleaning his room or taking out trash is his allowance or he asks his parents for money. I am younger than him and I work and I don't waste money like he does. Just recently I sent an e-mail to his new gf just warning her that what he did to me and it will happen to her. He makes promises and breaks them, I don't want any other girl being hurt because of him.

[¡Yiff Police!]

Jan 25, 2009 19:31:06 GMT -5 Sharpay said:

Thanks. Actually I am just curious how he is going to meet her or how long it is going to last. Because if he wants to meet her in person, he never earns his money, only cleaning his room or taking out trash is his allowance or he asks his parents for money. I am younger than him and I work and I don't waste money like he does. Just recently I sent an e-mail to his new gf just warning her that what he did to me and it will happen to her. He makes promises and breaks them, I don't want any other girl being hurt because of him.

Aw, that was a kind thing to do..Some people hold grudges and well take out on their ex-bf's new girl.

You really are a sweet girl XD

[Naked Snake II]

Well....in order to move on you must:

Do other things: Start getting active and doing things that'll keep your mind on something else.

Hang with friends: Your friends can help you as well, by doing social stuff/hanging out, you should not be thinking about him.

Basically, do not think about him at all.. Just do things to help as well..If you have a feeling your thoughts will go back to him, just quickly think about things you like like....dogs, or babies, or something random..

"Time heals all wounds"

THE GURU HATH SPOKEN

[Sharpay]

I agree. I am trying to do other stuff and one of them is being on this forum. Where I live at, kind of hard to be friends with my reputation at school. (Top Academic Student) and my high school is only 40 students. I sort of do have maybe 2 friends, thing is when I went after my ex-bf 2 years ago I hardly paid any attention to my friend, I was so busy keeping in contact with him. Hopefully tomorrow or sometime this week I can try to make it up for my friends.