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Post by starprincess on Jan 17, 2009 0:31:57 GMT -5
Ok lately I have been really depressed. My school work takes up most of my free time, so I can't see any of my friends and i feel lonely because of it. I come on this site to find some interesting conversation but I usually get annoyed with the convo, left out, or my voice is lost in the endless list of random crap in the c-box. What Do I do? Other than KOD, Lucario and perhaps Angel. These are the only friends I have here. I need some help. Depression doesn't make me sad like most people. It makes me extremely tense, short tempered and intolerant for bullshit.
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Post by Angel on Jan 17, 2009 0:55:34 GMT -5
Well for one, I want to say that at least I see you as a good friend of mine. Sure we are different, but I wouldn't have YOU any other way. If you were not you, then you wouldn't be Star at all. And I want to know Star.
Now about the other things.. I totally understand what your saying. To be honest, I don't think the c-box is the best place for serious conversations. Is mostly just for useless ramblings.
My suggestions for you are, when you are feeling lonely, talk to someone one on one. When your feeling depressed, get some YOU time. Take a walk, lay on your bed with the lights off, listen to some music. Depression comes from you mind and your heart, and healing them and finding the problem is the first way to get things out.
But seriously, if you ever need to talk about anything. I'm called the "Walking Talking Diary" by some of my good friends. You can literally tell me ANYTHING, and I'll be supportive of you and listen. I'm always open for a talk.
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Post by ¡Yiff Police! on Jan 17, 2009 0:55:37 GMT -5
 Well I can understand the whole part about school work taking up most your time part, because that happens to me too. What I normally do to after a stressful day of school work (if i have the time) play some games, listen to music, or watch something funny (laughter helps when your not in a good mood.) As for the friends part...Everyone here is your friend, well at least I am. I cannot understand anyone wouldn't be your friend, your cool, awesome, and like to have a good time. As for the C-Box, that happens a lot. I can feel your pain here once again, but the randomness can make it fun and enjoyable at times. But it's hard to have a deep conversation there without someone either ruining it or something else happening. I think if you want deep conversations either IM someone from here or PM them..That's all I can think of for that part. Now finally as for seeing friends part, I cannot help you there because I don't go out my house plus I don't have friends really (on this forum yes-ish, in real life no) But I think the best thing to do is try to do other things that you enjoy doing to make you some what happy again. |
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Post by Naked Snake II on Jan 17, 2009 12:31:37 GMT -5
Okay, I use to have that scenario too. everything else took up my time thus I cant socialize, then you try to fit in, and you feel your voice in on mute to everyone else..Well, it's not.
What to do: Manage your time more efficiently. I'm not saying dont do homework (cuz you know...you'd do bad academically). Do your homework when you get home, then u should have ample time to chill with your pepz. If you have alot, then do as much as you can for a certain time, then do the rest at a study hall if you have one.
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Post by Bert on Jan 17, 2009 21:57:38 GMT -5
How did this get past the censors? O.o Interesting.
For your friend situation, if you get work for the weekend, try and get it done ASAP. It'll give you more free time to hang out with you pals.
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Post by starprincess on Jan 19, 2009 0:19:08 GMT -5
I said it before and i'll say it again. I'm ignored on this forum. When I try to jump in on the chat box i'm ignored when i post something i'm ignored. I only have a few people here that actually sees that I exist. I get what you guys are saying but I really don't feel loved here at all. if you guys don't believe me look at my karma. I'm the nicest person in the world and I try to help anyone i can but let's face it i'm unwanted trash around here. Just another lowly member that doesn't need to be paid attention too. New members get more attention than i do. Noobs get more attention than I do. Spammers get banned but they get more attention than i do. Do i have to flame or spam just to get noticed here because apparently i must be doing something wrong. You tell me guys?
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Post by smashbro on Jan 19, 2009 9:00:26 GMT -5
Ok lately I have been really depressed. My school work takes up most of my free time, so I can't see any of my friends and i feel lonely because of it. I come on this site to find some interesting conversation but I usually get annoyed with the convo, left out, or my voice is lost in the endless list of random crap in the c-box. What Do I do? Other than KOD, Lucario and perhaps Angel. These are the only friends I have here. I need some help. Depression doesn't make me sad like most people. It makes me extremely tense, short tempered and intolerant for bullshit. ~School is school, and theres not much that can be done about that. But maybe, for like a test, you can get toegther with friends in your group, so you're at least with them, even if it's studying. ~That happens a lot in the c-box, it's nothing personal, but whoever is there first usually gets to start up the convo and it doesnt end for a while. It's happened to me too. ~Don't say they're your only friends here. Look at all the people who replied to help you with this. If you ever need to talk to me, feel free to pm me, or im sure anyone else here. I said it before and i'll say it again. I'm ignored on this forum. When I try to jump in on the chat box i'm ignored when i post something i'm ignored. I only have a few people here that actually sees that I exist. I get what you guys are saying but I really don't feel loved here at all. if you guys don't believe me look at my karma. I'm the nicest person in the world and I try to help anyone i can but let's face it i'm unwanted trash around here. Just another lowly member that doesn't need to be paid attention too. New members get more attention than i do. Noobs get more attention than I do. Spammers get banned but they get more attention than i do. Do i have to flame or spam just to get noticed here because apparently i must be doing something wrong. You tell me guys? ~^^^c-box ends up like that sometimes. ~as for the karma, i never use it, so don't worry about that. i dont know how much people use it, but its not that people dont like you. Just think that people gave you karma, and that that in itself is a positive. ~But never say you are unwanted trash. People here care about you, they've posted in this thread. Again if you ever need anything feel free to pm me. We all (or at least I) have felt like this before, even if it was not on this forum. When I'm on I'll try to pay more attention to you if you're on. |
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Post by Naked Snake II on Jan 19, 2009 9:09:19 GMT -5
About the cbox..just try to crack up a joke or somthing if you really feel THAT ignored...Personally I dont really thing you are ignored on it. And its not about the karma that much. Actually you have a good amount of karma..It took me a month or two to get like 5 karma when I first started. And if it makes you feel better Geo grants Queen: +1 Karma  |
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Post by IOwnedYou on Jan 19, 2009 21:33:59 GMT -5
Well the c-box isn't really the place for a conversation. You'd get too spammed up and lose track of what people are saying and lose your thoughts.
Now for school work... What I do is, if you have a free period like homeroom, I do my work there and don't talk to friends so I could finish it. At home I try and finish my work as quickly as possible but also taking my time to get right answers and such. That way I have free time with friends, and if you finish stuff in school then you have even more. I take every moment I have, except on some occasions, in class, like say we had to do a worksheet and finish it before the end of the period... Well get it done quickly and wait for friends to be done too, and while you're waiting do work, and then when they're done you can talk, do some homework you needed to do for the next classes, talk, do more work. That's what I do
And you can try to sneak and talk with a friend during the class, like if the teacher isn't looking but yeah... For friends to come over just repeat the stuff in teh paragraph above.
Hope this helps, but if I'm missing the point let meh know.
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Well I can understand the whole part about school work taking up most your time part, because that happens to me too. What I normally do to after a stressful day of school work (if i have the time) play some games, listen to music, or watch something funny (laughter helps when your not in a good mood.)
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