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Post by ness11 on Sept 16, 2008 9:59:47 GMT -5
Before I start asking for help and praying that it helps let me start with this. There are only a few things I think about on a regular basis everyday: running, more running, other random stuff here, and her. I pretty much channel everything out.
So me and this gril have been car pooling with each other (parent's have, not us) for nearly two years now. I never really started liking her until about now. Me and her are pretty good friends and she even made me cookies and brownies (I repay her by going to Dariy Queen)! At meets we cheer a lot for each other, although I cheer for pretty much everyone on the team...but her more then anyone else.
We talk quite a bit about school and such. I'm not sure if this counts as flirting or not but when we get in our drill lines most of the time the guys get in their own lines and the girls get in their own; there's no rule it just happens like that. But she's alwasy in my line, laughs at my jokes that I tell during drills, and acts like and says stuff that makes it seem like she likes hanging out with me. I can sort of see that she likes me, but I'm not entirely sure (my friends are clueless when it comes to that). Me and her live in the same neighborhood and ride the same bus, and she also is in the same lunch period as me.
I'm thinking of asking her out, but I'm afraid if I do and she doesn't feel the same way it'll kill her friendship and she'll end up telling other people or it'll leek out without her telling and then I'll have to go through the hallways with "Dude, you asked her out! *laughs*", but my rock head could drown most of it out.
Got any advice?
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Post by smashbro on Sept 16, 2008 13:41:26 GMT -5
Ok...sounds like you are one of the storybook childhood friends who are best friends and then end up going out. So its pretty good.
Just hang out with her more after school, and also hang out with her friends. If she likes you, then her friends will talk with her, probably about you sometimes, and be quiet when you walk up to them. Also a girls friends have a lot of influence over her, so if her friends think youre ok, then she'll agree.
Dont ask her out until you're sure though.
also a good site to go to is wikihow, and look up how to tell if a girl likes me or something like that. there is some good advice
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Naked Snake II
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Post by Naked Snake II on Sept 16, 2008 13:58:45 GMT -5
well if I were you, ask her out... u really got nothing to lose
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Post by NonChalant on Sept 17, 2008 2:27:56 GMT -5
If you continue to be her friend, you might miss the opportunity to be her boyfriend, I would say take geo's advice and ask her out, or atleast tell that you like her more than friend... if she's your friend, she won't dump your friendship, unless you give her that ultimatum... and I don't think people will make fun of you if you get rejected... it happens alot more than people think...
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Post by Kirby King on Sept 17, 2008 18:04:37 GMT -5
...........yeah if u stay her freind the chace will slip awey
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Post by IOwnedYou on Sept 17, 2008 18:44:29 GMT -5
and I don't think people will make fun of you if you get rejected... it happens alot more than people think... That reminds me of my friend... He got rejected about 17 times. But like almost all of them said maybe though. And no one made fun of him for getting rejected either. So no worries of getting made fun of and the only real option you have is to ask her out anyways...
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Post by theauthor on Sept 23, 2008 14:27:10 GMT -5
dude at least you have a girl you have a chance with i got no chance with any girls ask her out i will make you.
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