I can't believe I'm doing this

[Wiggy the Legendary Hero]

Normally, I try to figure these things out on my own. That's why I'm rarely on the "Ask the Guru's" part of the forums.

But I really don't know what to do. So I'm reaching out to the "Love Guru of Destiny," and hopefully he'll have some answers.


Alrighty, I like this person. We've been friends for about 2 years, and we've been best friends for about half a year.

I would ask her out, but there are two problems.

1) I have no idea if she likes me as well
2) Earlier this year, she said she was dating someone online, but I don't know if she still is.

If you can give me some good advice, I'd be pleased, and I will thank you.

[Naked Snake II]

Asking for help doesn't make you weak Wiggy. It makes you a better person. Person that'll learn something
hmm...interesting predicament Wiggy. Well, here's what I would do:
1) talk to/hang out with her more
2) If she's your friend for 2 yrs, of course she likes you, BUT you might be in the FRIEND-ZONE
3) Does she flirt with you?
4) How did you meet her?

[Wiggy the Legendary Hero]

I don't really notice if she flirts with me so I don't know.

And we only met when we were paired together for a physical fitness testing in P.E.

[Naked Snake II]

oh. well, hang out with her more, but not too much so she doesnt think you have a life or something.. pay attention to see if she gives you any hints as to flirting

[Wiggy the Legendary Hero]

Alrighty I'll give it a try.

[Naked Snake II]

tell me how it worked for you

[Wiggy the Legendary Hero]

lol Everything's down the drain. For a while I thought she broke up with her online boyfriend, but apparently not. I don't think I'm going to try anymore, but thanks anyway Love Guru.

[Naked Snake II]

Not good. I guarantee good results what did she say to u?

[Wiggy the Legendary Hero]

She didn't say anything. I didn't say anything about my feelings for her, but I paid more attention to how she acted towards me. I only felt a friend connection.

I just don't want to screw my friendship up just because of a crush, because that's happened before, and I definitely don't want it to happen again.

[Naked Snake II]

Happens to me as well, I'd actually would have told u to just be friends and you are hereby in her 'Friends-Zone'

[Wiggy the Legendary Hero]

Well this is just a little update, but one of my friends has told my crush about my feelings for her, but I don't know how she took it.

[Naked Snake II]

That's not good, here's the shakedown of what can happen.
BAD: She thinks of you as a friend, and doesnt matter what you feel about her in that way at all (how cold is that?)

GOOD: She recognizes your feelings, but due to circumstances she's taken, you still can't do anything

[Wiggy the Legendary Hero]

Well I've accepted the fact that I can't date her. I'm just worried about how she took it.
Hopefully, she understands and it won't be awkward between us.
Otherwise, she'll throw a hatchet at me and never speak to me again, but I don't think she'll overreact about it

[Naked Snake II]

then you'll have nothing to worry about. and if she throw a hatchet RUNN

[pimpolisious]

Trust me i am an expert on the female species. now every thing worth learnin can be learned from romantic comedies. a great piece of reference material is the movie "just friends". make sure you watch it, your relationship hangs in the balance. if the movie is not available, just buy her chocalate, roses, and madonna albums, then pretend to listen to her response (actual listening is not neccesary.) don't thank me now, but your welcome.