Mariomasher
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Post by Mariomasher on May 15, 2009 19:40:24 GMT -5
Before you all ask, yeah, I'm only in 7th grade, but age should have nothing to do with criticism.
Anyways, I've felt so down and sick lately.... Cramps, fever, headache, and, this contributed, loneliness.... I say I need a hug.... well me thinks that aint gonna do crap for me.... besides, Manhugs dont have the same affect as hugs do. Anyways, what would be the best option to not feel so down....?
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Post by smashbro on May 16, 2009 12:53:05 GMT -5
to be honest, if I knew the answer then I would be a much happier person. Do you have someone you can go to...for anything I mean? with problems, concerns, or anything to just go to talk to when you feel like talking? That is what I think is most important when you feel down, having someone there to go to for whatever, a constant, to be there to help.
also, you have to find out what makes you the happiest. What is the thing that you love to do the most? you have to decide what that is and try to spend more time doing that. If it is something you love, then it will make you truly happy.
thats all i got for now, lemme think some more, I'l ltell you if icome up with anything.
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Post by rebirth on May 16, 2009 13:00:45 GMT -5
What Smashbro said. I think the best remedy for this is finding a hobby and listening to your favorite music. Music is very healing you know
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Mariomasher
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Post by Mariomasher on May 17, 2009 8:08:05 GMT -5
Thanks guys, I'll try it out.
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Ejak
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Post by Ejak on May 18, 2009 3:47:03 GMT -5
uhh try hanging with friends or like get a girlfriend, or piss someone else off so you feel better. that wasnt good the last suggestion dont do that go have fun with friends live dude have fun you only get one childhood.
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Post by Angel on May 22, 2009 7:26:51 GMT -5
The new guru of this section will take a crack at this one. Honestly, you did send this to me.. and I really wish I could go in there and hug you over the computer, I really do. I have to say a few things from this. You looking for more than just something like music, or calm relaxation time.. (things that other people have mentioned, and are good but not good for this situation) what I think you need is some affection and some friends that you know are there for you in a REAL way. If you don't have any really close friends or relatives, I really would suggest putting yourself out there. Feel a little shy meeting people in person and talking to people face-to-face? Join Myspace or another Social Networking community and find some teens your age and in your area. Meet them online, break the ice and then go in person. And when you feel like you have made close connection, your hug needs need to be met. Your obviously a person who loves physical connections and showing of affection.. make sure people know. Whether it's a handshake, a pat on the back or a hug.. you need a physical bond with another. I hope you consider this.
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